Motherhood is an art—it’s a delicate balance of love, patience, and devotion. It’s not about perfection but about presence. In a world that often moves too fast, I’ve found that embracing a slow-living approach to motherhood allows me to cultivate deeper connections, find joy in the everyday, and create a home filled with warmth and intention.

Modern life encourages us to rush, but motherhood invites us to pause. The joy of watching my children’s little hands knead dough for homemade bread, the beauty of a handwritten letter from my child learning to form their words, and the quiet satisfaction of an afternoon spent together in the garden—these are the moments that weave the tapestry of this homegrown life.

By slowing down, I recognize the extraordinary in the ordinary. I see childhood as it is—fleeting, sacred, and worthy of my full attention. A home filled with the aroma of fresh bread baking, a table set with nourishing meals prepared from scratch, and evenings spent reading stories by candlelight—these are the rhythms of a life well-lived.

Education has become a natural extension of this way of life, where lessons are found in the daily tasks of running a home. My children learn history through storytelling, science through tending a backyard garden, and patience through figuring out recipes in the kitchen.  We use BJU Press and love it! The older boys are more independent with their core studies which allows me to be more hands on with out toddler. We also love adding in the extras when we are able to. We don’t stress if we don’t get to them, these are just the fun things. Check out one of our favorites for sunny spring days Here . Homeschooling allows us to embrace curiosity and explore learning at a pace that nurtures understanding rather than rushing toward completion.

The heart of my home is not in its perfection but in its warmth. Homemaking is about cultivating a space where love is felt in the smallest details—a cozy reading nook filled with well-loved books, the sound of laughter echoing through the kitchen, and my presence fully engaged in the moment. When I slow down to tidy with care, prepare meals with intention, and create a sanctuary for my family, I find joy in the simple act of making a house a home.

Motherhood moves quickly, and journaling offers a way to capture its fleeting beauty. Through written reflections, I document the tiny hands that will one day grow, the lessons learned along the way, and the deep gratitude that comes from embracing the everyday. A journal is my sacred place to hold my thoughts, a reminder that even on the hardest days, there is beauty in the journey. Here is one of my favorite guided journals. It makes getting it all out so easy! On the good days and bad, it helps ground me to be able to get it all out, on paper.

Like gardening, motherhood teaches me the value of patience and care. I plant seeds—both in the soil and in the hearts of my children—trusting that, with time and nurturing, they will grow strong. The lessons learned through tending to a garden mirror the lessons of motherhood: seasons of planting, waiting, and finally, harvesting the fruits of my labor.

Motherhood is not about getting everything right, and thank goodness; it’s about being fully present. By embracing slow living, we can create a childhood filled with wonder, a home filled with love, and a family rooted in connection.

We can choose joy, embrace connection, and cultivate a life that reflects the values we hold dear. This is the heart of my homegrown life—one lived with intention, grace, and an abundance of love.

~ With Love, Kaylene